If you’re reading this, I love you. It’s that simple.
If you know me and we’re friends and enjoy each other, of course I love you.
If you know me and you’ve hurt me in some way that you’re ashamed of or feel guilty about, I hope you can forgive yourself and let that go. Because I love you and forgave you for it already.
There are no caveats or conditions. Nothing you need to do to earn it. No flaming hoops to jump through. I just love you.
All of us are flawed. All of us are doing the best we can with what we’ve got at any given time. That thing you did that you look back on and cringe… You did your best at the time. Try to feel what you would feel if it happened to your best friend or partner instead. What advice would you give them? Forgive yourself, love yourself and let it go.
And if you’re not ready to do that yet and it just seems too hard, be kind to yourself and understand that it will come in time when you’re ready for it.
Thank you for being part of the world and adding your unique perspective and experience to it.
I love you. <3 <3 <3